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A Foundation for Moving Forward

There's clarity ahead.

 How to:

  • Get out of your own way.

  • Break free of your self-imposed limitations.

  • Get clear on where you want to go.


WHO SAYS I CAN'T?!?! - Veruca Salt  - 'Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory'

Why Some Gen-Xers Are Still Crushing It - Well Into Their Mid-Lives

Gen X Reflect helps you get what you want, almost like Veruca Salt. Almost...

We're Gen X.

We don't just do what we're told.

You tell us to slow down and start thinking about retirement, that just lights a fire under our ass to keep going and make more happen.

In fact, many of us are making the biggest moves of our lives, now that we've gotten rid of all the junk that was holding us back, while still holding on to that "I do what I want" attitude.

The three things that separate those who crush it in mid-life, from those who wither away into obscurity, are:


We Give Ourselves Permission

We get out of our own way.

We become our biggest cheerleaders.


We Cultivate a Winning Mindset

Old programs? Nah... We overwrite them with up to date powerful growth mindsets.

We break free from old conditioning by questioing everything.


We Gain Clarity on Our Goals

Gen X has plenty of time to get clear on what we want, rather than staying focused on what we don't.

Why we are doing this...

When met on Facebook dating in 2019, we wondered if we were too old, or if it was too late to find joy. We talked about what we would each bring to the table if we were to be together.

In our mid-late 40s, we knew it was time to "$hit of get off the pot", so we made a commitment to be obnoxiously transparent and fearless and talk about EVERYTHING. It was amusing and weird, but it saved us from having red flags showing up months later...

About 2 weeks later, we were engaged.

Our friends thought we were nuts, but to us, it was a choice.

We also needed simple tools to combine our lives effectively, so we took stock of our shared skills and created the Gen X courses for US!

Our friends watched our relationship unfold, and deepen over the first couple years, and people started asking us how we did it.

It made sense to make it available to as many Gen Xers as possible. So... here we are!

We have been saying YES to life!  Got married in April 2022, and went on an amazing journey to Egypt in October 2023.


Who is limiting you?

How to unlock the possibilities of your best life.

Are you trapped in a web of societal expectations, family obligations, and the desire to please others?

How can you reboot your own life if you're worried about everyone else?

WHO'S life is it? YOURS.

Of course, when you change, it almost always affects others in your life, so self-awareness is VERY helpful!


Be kind to yourself and others as you take back your power!

  • ULTIMATELY, the only permission you need is from YOURSELF.

  • Let’s unravel the myth of needing external permission to change your life.

See how much you give your power away and how to get it back!


Whatcha thinkin' about?

How to get out of your way, and become your biggest fan.

​Your mindset is your attitudes, worldview, and personal guiding philosophy.

It guides what you think and feel. It informs you about other people, yourself, culture, people's behavior, and what the meaning of your life could be. 

Your mindset is the direct reflection of a lifetime's worth of experiences.


Every good, bad, and ugly experience has built it. When you begin a sincere process of changing your life, it all hinges on your mindset. 

  • We're going to look at fixed and growth mindsets in this module. 

  • Do you have a fixed mindset? Do you doubt things will ever work out, and feel STUCK? 

  • Do you have a growth mindset? Are you optimistic and friendly, ready to explore new things? 

 Are your current thoughts SUPPORTING you

or FIGHTING you?


What's really true?

How to get clear on what you want so you can actually accomplish it.

How do you want to feel? 

  • Clear or confused?

  • Happy or sad?

  • Inspired or stuck?

What do you really want?


How can you know what you want if you don’t understand how you feel?

  • Have you ever left a job, relationship, or a situation that was not good for you?

  • What did it feel like to set yourself free?

  • Can you name "those things" that weren't good for you so you can see them coming?

We'll help you:

  • FEEL what is a YES or NO for you.

  • identify what patterns show up over and over and help you get clarity on that contrast.

  • understand your personal values so you can apply them and succeed.

Get clear on where you want to go.

Optimize your winning mindset.

Find out how to give yourself the permission you need.

What you build from here will be amazing! This is the foundation to make it all easier.

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